How to be Irresistible around Women Instantly!
I was talking to one of my coaching clients on the phone, and out pops a 9-word message that immediately tells me 3 main areas of concerns for the guy on the other end:
“I can’t get a hot girl in my town.”
And these guys believe that I must be very lucky for finding hot babes in my city, which has only over 1 million people.
I have seen it happen all the time — I put a guy in hordes of more hot chicks in just under hour than they’ve probably seen in his whole life, and with each girl pops another dreaded 3-word criticism.
“No, she’s (insert self-ruining criticism).”
Why are these men having problems with the ladies? Why does it seem as though all of a sudden the experience of taking a woman back to your place and have your way with her has suddenly become so complex, especially with the rise of “Nice guys?” The answer boils down to 3 simple SOLUTIONS to such a big and overlooked problem.
3 Ways to Instantly SKYROCKET Your Chances with HOT Women!
SOLUTION #1: Stop watching porn
Doing this alone can skyrocket your chances with women. Why? Here’s why…
The first reason is that your brain is completely oblivious that you’re watching porn. And I understand you probably are thinking, “Abi, of course, I know I am watching porn.” Yeah, I admit that… You are, of course, conscious that you’re watching porn, but that part of your brain that is responsible for mating and procreation has absolutely no idea, which is the very reason why you easily get aroused by watching porn. But if your nervous system really knew that it was not a REAL woman, just a screen, then there’s no way you’d get aroused. The truth of the matter is that your brain has absolutely no idea that it is looking at a painting, a picture, or porn, at all. All it knows is it must be real, which is the very reason why everything from paintings to cinemas has such an emotional impact on us.
The second negative side of watching porn is that, with every passing hour of porn watched, you’re literally training your brain to view both women and sex as they are presented in porn. According to many neurological studies, the part of the brain that is responsible for learning does so by observing other people. Using “mirror neurons” we now can tape-record what we see other people doing so that we can imitate those steps for our own good. In other words, with each hour of porn watched, you are essentially training your mind to have sex with your partner just the way they do in the movie. And, you probably already know, after about 10,000 hours of porn, you’ll be a master at it.
Is that good news? Not really. Not only do a lot of girls don’t want to have sex like the way they present it in porn, but most women are also Photoshopped to hide over any faults those porn actresses may have, which is the very reason why most guys are having such a tough time finding hot babes. They’ve watched so many hours of porn, that they often don’t easily get turn on by real women any longer. And if they did land themselves a hot woman, they wouldn’t really know how to arouse her properly, because all they know is 30 minutes of jackhammer anal. Not the kind of sex most women is interested to have with men.
Pathetic? Very pathetic. So, stop watching porn.
SOLUTION #2: Stop jacking off
This is often where a lot of guys want to quit. As if having real sex with women was not natural. No, dude, sitting alone in a parent’s basement jacking off to porn is not natural. Jacking off also has a bad psychological impact on our self-worth, which also explains the reason why a lot of guys lack huge confidence in themselves. As you may already know, confidence is the most attractive trait women find irresistible in men. So just by stopping masturbating alone, you’re allowing yourself to become more confident. Plus, because the real reason your balls fills up is to make babies with a woman, you’ll naturally start to communicate in all the right ways with girls in order to make it happen.
Rather than racking your brains out thinking about how you’re going to handle your sexual urges without actually jerking off, just be aware that a lot of women get all HOT and aroused by your horniness. And just remember, they’d rather want to be in your bed, then have you somewhere else alone selfishly containing your creative gift from her.
Does it make sense? I hope it does. So, stop jacking off and start banging women.
SOLUTION #3: Start becoming more social
We are naturally social creatures. In order to live life a happy life, we have to communicate with others and do good things for our community. Modern society functions even without communication because everyone contributes to the whole. But without an active social life, a lot of people will actually lose their mind and go mad. So, by compelling yourself to stop watching porn and jacking off, you’ll notice that you’ll be making the most of your time by doing more productive things, getting a lot more things done, and overall, being a better person. Then the issue of, “what to say to a woman?” won’t even cross your mind, because since your entire day was spent doing stuff that you really want to talk about with others, and then the issues of ‘running out of things to say’ and facing dreaded ‘awkward silences’ will no longer be there anymore.
And once you’re on top of your social game and being way more productive in your day, then you’ll no longer be chasing women. Instead, women will be chasing after you from left and right. And then, your self-esteem, confidence, and testosterone level will all bursts through the roof.
Here’s Your Assignment For The Next 3 Weeks
- STOP watching porn for the next 21 days
- STOP jacking off for the next 21 days
- TALK to one stranger a day
- ASK a girl out on a date at least once a week
- RINSE and REPEAT these above steps until you hit 90 days
P.S. Here’s another related article on the subject: 10 Tips to Look MORE Attractive