15 Effective Ways To Attract More Girls, FAST
Part 1 — Understanding how attraction works
A lot of guys are clueless on how to attract women into their lives. This is true because nobody taught them the important skill of attracting women in school or college. That’s why many guys go through their life without the ability to attract girls or having a relationship with a woman they like.
A lot of guys also wrongly believe that the only way to attract women into their life is through looks, money, fame, or power. That’s just “lame” thinking. Why? Simply because I know many men who do not have any of these, yet they are still able to attract beautiful women.
After almost 7 years into the pickup community, I can tell you right now that the most important skills you must develop to attract beautiful women are learning how to flirt, learning how to tease a woman, and how to develop a better sense of humour.
Now, before you learn how to attract a woman, you must first know what girls find attractive.
In order to answer this, let’s move on in two steps.
What traits do women find attractive?
And then talk about…
What traits turn off women?
Knowing answers to these questions will help you enter into the woman’s mind and figure out how you must act in the future in order to attract a beautiful woman into your life.
What traits turn off women
a) Women don’t like “weak” men. Women are biologically programmed to gravitate towards men who seem dominant, strong, and confident. For this reason only, showing weak traits like being shy, insecure, nervous, or needy instantly makes a woman lose her attraction (if any) towards you. Women intuitively sense a man who feels “inferior” to her. Women don’t want to be with a man who is “below” her.
b) Women hate it when men lack “social intelligence.” Social intelligence is knowing how to act properly in different social situations. If a guy lacks social intelligence, a woman can’t imagine herself going out with him in public. She will feel embarrassed just to be with him. And this will destroy any attraction she may have for him in the beginning.
c) Another easiest way to turn a woman off is to show “weak” body language. As I mentioned earlier, women don’t like men who come across as needy, insecure, and nervous. So when you show posture or body language that display these type of weak behaviours you will, of course, turn a woman off.
d) Looks aren’t as important as most guys like to think. If you want to attract women into your life, you can’t be indifferent in your appearance. You must display to a woman that you take a lot of pride in your appearance. Women don’t like men who appear weak, lazy, or sickly.
e) Showing too much interest in a woman is also a surefire way to turn her off. This is one of the biggest mistakes that a lot of guys make when trying to attract women. This is deadly, yet so many guys do not have a clue they are making it. But by displaying too much interest, you eliminate the chase and fun of a romance… and the woman instantly loses interest and becomes bored.
By knowing these behaviours and traits that women hate, you are way ahead than 90% of the guys out there who will never able to attract women into their life.
What turns a woman ON
a) A lot of guys don’t know that the best way to attract a beautiful woman is to just be a guy who is fun, playful, and flirty. Because so many guys act insecure and nervous around women, the “cool and relaxed” guy who can allow a woman to have fun and relax around his presence is 3 steps ahead of the game. The easiest and the quickest way to have fun with women is to flirt with them, be playful with them, and tease them. Women are highly attracted to guys who know exactly how to talk to women in a fun, playful, and flirty way. These guys also know how to make small talk interesting and sexy.
b) Women are extremely social. And they want a man who knows how to act in a different social situation. In addition to that, they prefer to be with a man who is sort of a leader of the group. That is why the natural way to attract women into your life is to be seen as someone who is a leader by your friends. The more men a woman spots looking up to you… the more likely she’ll want to be with you.
c) Girls love the “chase.” The easiest way to initiate this chase is to always play the push and pull with her. Push and pull means that you do not let your hands on the table (you do not let her know 100% that she has got you). Instead, you display some interest, but then you pull away. Keep doing this over and over again. A beautiful woman is used to getting a man who supplicates to her immediately. So the man who keeps her guessing is the man who will eventually attract her.
The secret of attracting women is having the ability to talk to women. I have written an article on how to talk to women, where I reveal a few specific examples of conversation topics that you can to say to attract women. The truth is many guys do not know how to talk to women. So if you become the guy who does, you’ll become even more attractive to women.
15 Ways To Attract More Women
Above you learned about a few specific things that turn women on and how to attract them. In this section, I’m going to reveal you a few specific tactics you can use in your interactions to attract a woman.
1. When you are in a group of other men, make sure to take the role of a “leader.” You should be the guy that other guys turn for guidance. You should be the decision maker of the group.
2. Although you don’t have to look like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt to get a girl’s attention, it is still very important to be presentable and be at your best self. This means you should be looking fit, well-groomed, healthy, and dress to impress to show to her that you have a high level of “social intelligence”.
3. You body language and posture must present you as an “alpha.” This means you have your shoulders back, you are not afraid to take up space, you walk with your head held high and give off an impression of that man who knows exactly where he is going in his life.
4. You must be able to pick up on the verbal cues that a woman is sending to you. Women are massively attracted to men who understand them, so if you want to attract a woman into your life, you must pay attention to what her body, words, and other subtle signs are telling you.
5. Be assertive with women. Women go nuts over a guy who is not afraid to go after what he wants in life. So if you feel like you want to kiss a girl you have been talking to… do not hide it. Just do it. Do not wait for her permission to kiss her. Women are massively attracted to guys who are not afraid to take charge sexually.
6. Tease and flirt with girls. The easiest ways to attract beautiful women fast is to start flirting with her. There is something about flirting that turns a woman on.
- How to “Flirt” with Girls (And Take Them Home)
- How to “Tease” A Woman (And Make Her Obsessed About YOU)
- How To Talk To A Beautiful Woman You Just Met (15 “Killer” Tips)
7. Use “cold reading tactics” to attract women. These kinds of things tell a woman that you understand her, and that you have a lot of experience with women.
- Using Cold Reading Examples to Seduce Beautiful Women
- Use THESE Mini “Cold Reading Tips” to Create Attraction In A Woman, INSTANLTY
8. Do not shy away from getting physical with women. We human beings are very attracted to the touch of others.
9. Be cocky and funny. Women want to be with a guy who is extremely confident and fun. Dial that a little bit, and it’ll become “cocky and funny” (overly confident humour).
10. Push and Pull. Women like a man who makes her wonder about him. Women love the “chase”. So when displaying your interest to her, make sure it is “just a little bit”, and then you pull away from her. Doing this will leave a woman wondering how attractive you are to her.
11. Do not be shy. Show your identity. Talk about what interests you (your passions, interests, hobbies, etc)
12. Give her a lot of positive emotions. Another way to attract women into your life is to make her feel a lot of positive emotions around you. The best way to go about doing this is to talk about things that bring positive emotions out of a woman. The good news is that I have discovered the 4 best topics for conversation with women.
13. If you want to give a compliment to a woman and attract her, do not talk about how beautiful she is, like most guys do. A beautiful woman is tired of hearing compliments like “Your eyes are beautiful” “You have a great body” “You look gorgeous.” Make sure your compliments involve unique things about her personality.
14. Be direct. Women are attracted to a man who is not afraid to go for what he wants. So if you are attracted to her sexually, you must make this thing clear early on in the conversation. The easiest way to go about doing this is to make a quick reference to it that lets her know this. For example, you could say something like, “you know the thing you just did with your hair was so freaking sexy.”
15. Use negs. This is another great way to attracting beautiful girls into your life. Negs are a way of giving a woman playful insults. When you playfully insult her… a woman doesn’t feel anymore above you. This is perhaps the best technique to attract hot women.
There you have it. All these tips and tactics should give you a very good idea on how to attract women. The first thing you must understand is that it is not all about money, look, and fame that attracts beautiful women into your life. There are a lot of different things involved, that all men are capable of doing.
Since talking to beautiful women are the most difficult things to do for most men, I have put up a free 27-page manual by my friend (Bobby Rio) which explains exactly how to talk to women in a fun, playful, and flirty way. This free report covers everything to help you attract a woman.
P.S. Here’s another related article on the topic: This “Simple Trick” Makes A Girl Want You (Use With Caution!)