5 Key “Traits” All Attractive Men Possess
I’m going to start with the fundamentals. A lot of guys think that good looks is the #1 component of attracting women, but this is completely WRONG! In fact, the biggest difference between a really very good looking guy having a conversation with a woman and an ugly guy doing the same thing is only 30-extra seconds.
You see, the good-looking guy gets 30-extra seconds when he meets someone new, and nothing more. If he cannot give a woman a good reason to keep on engaging with him, he’ll quickly be discarded alongside the rest of other ugly men.
With that pointer in mind, make sure to keep these top 6 tips in mind:
1. Make the most of what you have
Now, you may not look as good as Brad Pitt, but that doesn’t matter a thing to almost 99% of women out there after a minute or so. Women, of course, want a man who takes good care of himself. Wear clothes that fit you, style your hair, shave often, and most importantly, cut and clean your fingernails. (A guy who doesn’t take time to clean his hands and nails gives off the impression that he may not clean other intimate parts of his body.)
2. Show her that you have ambition
This is a big one. I mean, no woman wants to be with a man who is comfortable enough working at MacDonald’s on minimum wage. There’s nothing wrong working at MacDonald’s, but if you do, make sure to show her some ambition. Learn how to play the guitar. Join a gym and lift the weights. Run a marathon, and even better, win it, in record time? Having a few goals for your life and actually achieving them (or at least trying to accomplish them) is a sure-fire way to be more attractive to women. You don’t necessarily have to be a successful dude. You only have to show her that you have what it takes to be successful.
3. Be sympathetic
In a lot of cases, old sayings are appreciated for several reasons, and there’s one that I’ve particularly found to be very relevant recently. Women love a man who listens, which is a very attractive quality you can have. Now, I’m not saying that you should pretend to listen to her, but actually trying to hear and understand what she is telling you is a very attractive quality. Let her know that you understand where she is coming from; talk about any commonalities in culture, morals, background, world views, humour, etc. Remember, commonalities = connection. The more things you can connect with her, the more chemistry you can create with her.
4. Other women want YOU
Have you ever had a girlfriend and you noticed that other women give you more attention than usual? Well, this happens for two reasons. The first reason is that you come across as a guy who is already chosen by other women, and women want what other women have. It’s the very same reason why every girl you know owns a pair of UGG boots. Every girl in town has them so she has to have them too. Showing that other women have already chosen you makes you less available, and as a result, your demand goes through the roof.
5. Show you don’t need her
The second reason why this happens is since you’re already chosen by another woman, and when you try to interact with new women, they can instantly sniff that you are not trying to sleep with them. This instantly makes you more valuable just as having a girlfriend indirectly demonstrates a lot of my earlier points automatically. Women can instantly smell when you are trying to get in their pants, and don’t even for a second think that they don’t have a clue.
6. Have an attractive lifestyle
Do things that you love doing. For example, if you like bike riding, go bike riding or even join a bikers club. Doing things you enjoy is attractive to women. If you have an interesting life that you want to bring her into, it better be more than just sitting on your sofa and watching Netflix and eating curry every night. This is common wisdom, yet most guys get stuck in this rut where they do NOTHING. Here’s my advice: Do fun things, because “girls just wanna have fun.”
So there you go, 6 things women find attractive in men. Now, of course, you don’t have to do all these 6 things, however, the more you can tick off your checklist, the better your results are going to be.
P.S. Here’s another related article on the subject: 6 More Attractive Things Women Look for in Men