How to Escape the Friend Zone (3 Simple Steps)

How to Get out of the Friend Zone Fast with a Girl

There’s a lot of reasons that can put us in the dreaded friendzone, and hopefully, we already have studied most of them so that we aren’t repeating those mistakes again…

… Really, get to know those mistakes if you don’t know already…

Generally, specific things such as being too available, not breaking the touch barrier, over focusing on her, trying too hard to impress her, and doing any other similar things like these are all contributing elements.

I hope you haven’t already reached the final stage of the friendzone where there is almost no hope of ever returning…

BUT EVEN IF YOU HAVE these 3 simple steps will still you get out of the friend zone, get more attention from her, and finally get a girl…

… Even if she’s not that girl…

Listen to me yo folks.

ABY’S GOT YOUR BACK!

So, let’s begin talking about…

What Went Wrong Really…

Okay let’s be honest here at some particular point or another maybe you have been too much available for her.

It’s only logical thinking that may have placed you in the friend zone but the real problem is that women are not always logical…

You might be thinking that if you were “nice” to her…

Kept listening to her all day long when she goes on and on about her life’s problems and irritating co-workers…

Always put aside everything to make time to see her and spend time with her whenever she hits you up…

She would finally realise how much you really care about her, unlike countless “jerks” she met throughout her life in the past…

Try to see how much value you have to offer to her as her “boyfriend”, and maybe think of you as a possible romantic partner…

But the bad news is like I said earlier…

Women are not always logical…

THE TRUTH IS that you are a great asset to her and would be an awesome partner for her…

The good news is that you’ve already set yourself up as an awesome friend which is a foundation for a relationship…

And…

Getting out of the friend zone step #1!

DO ANYTHING THAT DOES NOT INVOLVE HER!

The first and the most important thing you must immediately do is…

… DO ANYTHING THAT DOES NOT INVOLVE HER!

LET ME EXPLAIN…

It is very important that you go and find your friends and do something awesome that is worthy of posting on social media…

This is SOMETHING VERY IMPORTANT!

You MUST understand that you’re not taking her or inviting her to any of these events … so how is she supposed to know about all the incredible fun you are having if it doesn’t include her?…

You can’t call her or text her to tell about it… so what you want to do is just post pictures about it on your social media and tag as many mutual friends as you possibly can so she be certain to know about it, too.

Go to a football game or concert… and don’t invite her…

Go out to the bar… and don’t invite her…

Go on a laser tag…

Or a hike…

SOMETHING… ANYTHING AWESOME that she will wish she came to…

… What this does is separates yourself from her and also makes you come across as less available…

She used to take your time for granted… but you are telling her that your time is, in fact, valuable and if she wants some of it then she’ll have to put some effort to get some…

LISTEN. EVERYBODY DESIRES WHAT THEY CAN’T HAVE!

Getting out of the friend zone step #2!

Become “super busy”…

This is an excellent time to start focusing on you…

A lot of guys make a common mistake of focusing on the girl they like too much…

If you do this it winds up coming across to her that you don’t have any life outside of her and therefore she won’t value you so much…

But if you appear super busy then she’s going to become more interested in you because she knows that your precious time is no longer free to her whenever she wants it…

EVEN BETTER if you started training something “badass” to keep yourself busy…

Something like a pickup, kickboxing, boxing, jujitsu, writing, starting your own business, or something else that’ll dramatically improve your lifestyle while also multiplying your “social confidence.”

VERY IMPORTANT POINT!!!

Do NOT completely cut her out your life though…

You still want to be able to call her sometimes…

… Except when she starts to talk endlessly about her irritating co-worker again you simply cut her off and tell her you are really sorry but you’ve got to go and you’ll probably see or text her later because you’ve got some awesome thing to do…

“Or hey I’ve just gotta run. I’m meeting with my friends (for the boxing gym, for dinner, etc).

Getting out of the friend zone step #3 (the most important step of all)

Make sure that whatever you are doing that don’t include her you are doing them with other women…

… Let me repeat that again for THOSE WHO ARE JUST PLAIN LAZY OR SCARED…

START HANGING OUT WITH OTHER WOMEN!

When you are doing your own thang, improving your social and confidence skills, and having a blast without her she is going to be extremely curious again…

But when you include other women to the equation that interest skyrockets almost overnight…

She’ll start to wonder…

Her mind will think if you’re sleeping with other chicks…

If she has overlooked something in you that these other girls find so appealing…

She’ll most likely become super jealous because you did everything amazing just to make yourself happy again and you simply added another woman to have all the fun…

IT’S SO SIMPLE…

To meet more girls, you can either go out with your pals or…

Start approaching and meeting girls solo when you’re out of your house…

Or, just have your friends bring other female friends…

BUT MAKE SURE to post all your fun times on social media and get those girls in the pictures.

If you do all these kind of things she’ll start showing you a different kind of attention that you actually wanted, which you can now use as momentum to let her know that you want to be more than “just friends” so she should either take it or leave it…

Or you’ll easily wind up making opportunities for you to meet other possibly better and hotter women than her and you’ll literally forget why she had you so hung up in the first place.

How to Get Out of the Dreaded Friend Zone: Insider Tips

  • If she starts to become jealous and wants to get back to you for doing your own thing or hanging around with other chicks, then DO NOT GIVE IN YET. If you give in, it will only show to her that she still has you. If she makes any comments about you hanging out with other girls, simply say you’re keeping your options open and looking for the right one. If she tries to get back to you simply “stay busy”. You’re the one in charge of your life here.
  • You can easily know who has viewed your posts on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat so even if she doesn’t like it or double tap, you can still know if she is getting the message you’re trying to get across her through social media.
  • The fact is that if you’ve been too committed to a girl who isn’t crazy about you, then you also haven’t been committed to yourself which is probably the reason why she placed you in the friend zone. REALLY use this time to build yourself up into a better version of yourself. Join a training program (a combat sport, maybe), or a book club, start your business, forward your career, or do anything that moves you forward in your life that doesn’t involve her. Putting yourself second for a girl who doesn’t consider you as her first is the fastest way to land back to the dreaded friend zone again.

Stay chilled,

Abishek

P.S. Here’s another related article on the subject:
http://www.daygamesecrets.com/how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone-fast-6-easy-step