How To “Flirt” With Girls (And Get Her Aroused Instantly)


An Ultimate Guide To Being Flirtatious And Getting The Girl YOU Want

Examples of How To Make “Hot Girls” Like YOU

Let’s face the truth — if you want to get BETTER results with women (get more phone numbers, dates, and lays) then you MUST learn how to flirt with women.

But a lot of interactions with women often goes something like: a guy approaches a girl and talks with her for a while. The conversation goes well for a while, but then there’s no “attraction” and the girl doesn’t make it any obvious for him. She doesn’t give you any signals that tells you she likes you too. Soon, you run out of things to say and decide it’s better to pull out of the interaction than risk facing awkward silences or running out of things to say.

If you don’t know how to have small talks (conversations) in a fun, playful, and flirtatious way, then soon you’ll bore her brains out and she’ll lose interest in you, and she’ll leave the interaction to find some other dude who knows how to turn her on sexually by being flirty and sexy.

I have tons of experience of this. I am a guy who has tons of cool friends, make lots of money, and hit the gym almost every day… but until I mastered the art of flirting with women, I always found myself pushed in the dreaded “friend zone.”

So, if you’re shy, insecure, or just don’t know how to “spark attraction” in a woman that you’re talking to, then you’re going to love this article, as I am going to reveal to you a simple “action plan”.

What is Flirting?

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The reason that most guys struggle with flirting is because they don’t know what it really is. A lot of guys, I notice, wrongly think that “being flirty” means saying cheesy lines to women, or even worse, giving a woman over the top compliments. But giving compliments is not flirting. In fact, unless a woman feels any attraction towards you, you MUST NEVER give her a compliment at all. Instead, you must only focus on the simple “action plan” that I’m about to reveal to you in this article. So, what does flirting mean actually? Well, flirting is communicating with women in a fun, playful, and flirtatious way that lets her know you’re interested in her… without actually saying it or being too obvious about it. Here’s what you must be doing instead:

  • Bantering with her
  • Teasing her
  • Becoming “partners in crime”
  • Turn your interactions with her in some kind of “adventure” or “game”

In this article, I’m going to talk about each of these elements, and also give you some killer examples of doing so so that you can apply these tactics into your interactions with women and spark MASSIVE attraction, within minutes!

The Fine Art of Playful Teasing

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The quickest and also the easiest ways to start flirting with women is to start playfully teasing her. Remember, the teasing MUST be light-hearted, fun, and playful though, and it must not be rude or offensive. It’s always a good idea to tease a woman on the way she is behaving, on something she says, or on something funny you notice about her. As you learn to listen and pay attention to a girl you’re talking to, you’ll quickly find things you can flirt and tease her about. Things such as:

  • Having a “kinky” side
  • Being “bossy”
  • Being “naive” or “gullible”
  • Being “blonde”

You can also flirt and tease her with some sort of a challenge. The best way to do this is to have a small friendly competition with her. For example, I often like to playfully provoke intelligent girls into having “a spelling bee” with me… it’s just playful and fun way to get the two of us to engage in some sort of “game.” You can flirt with a woman without even saying a word. For example, you can tease her by blocking her way so that she cannot walk past you. Or you can tickle her, swat her with a stick, or do the classic routine “you’ve got spider on your shirt.”

Funny, Cheesy “Flirting Lines” You Can Use Tonight

When you’re starting to learn how to flirt and tease women it’s always a great idea to have some “canned” flirting lines ready to use in many situations. It is really difficult to come up with something original to say when you’re talking to a woman. That’s why you must sometimes rely on flirting lines to tease a woman:

  • If she spills her drink… “Bartender, you need to cut her off”
  • If she’s acting rude… “Looks like someone wore a cranky pants this morning”
  • If she says something nerdy… “You often hang around at the library, don’t you?”

Well, these are just a handful flirting lines you can say to a woman to “spark instant attraction”. My friend, Bobby Rio, has actually written a “cheat sheet” of funny, playful, and flirtatious banter lines that you can use in all kinds of situations.

Body Language

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Body Language

Remember this: what your body is saying is as important as what you are saying. Often times, most guys become nervous, scared, and shy talking to women, and because of this, they have a poor body language — bad posture, eyes moving around all over the place, and moving and shaking a lot — which makes a woman think that you’re not truly that “confident and cool” dude as you seem to be. That’s why displaying a confident body language is as crucial as the words that come out of your mouth and the teasing and banter.

Here are a few examples of being flirty using your body language:

  • Smiling slowly at her (not being nervous or displaying an obnoxious grin)
  • Talking slowly (not talking too fast)
  • Briefly touching her as you are talking to her
  • Appearing relaxed and laid backAnd holding a looong and strong eye contact

If you can combine these skills with good verbal flirting skills then you will not fail to have a girl give you all the signs that she is into you.

Signs To Look For

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Signs To Look For

How can you be certain if a woman is actually flirting with you or just being nice? Below, you’ll find some of the best signs to look for to be certain a woman is actually flirting with you. For example, if I am talking to a girl and I sense there’s some kind of “good vibes” between the two of us… there are the things I look for to be sure she’s flirting with me too.

20 Ways to Tell if a Woman is “flirting” with you.


  1. Gets a little “closer” to you
  2. Keeps holding the “eye contact”… and then quickly looks away
  3. “Smiles” at you. It will be a slow smile, not a forced or nervous smile
  4. Finds reasons to talk to you
  5. Asks what your name is and other “personal information” about you… first
  6. Gives you “a nickname” (very powerful flirting sign)
  7. “Asks” you if you’re single or how old you are
  8. “Touches” you lightly during an interaction
  9. “Moves closer” to you as the two of you are talking
  10. Laughs” at your jokes… even the “unfunny ones
  11. Comes up with “future plans” with you (she’ll mention a band that she wants you to see)
  12. Sends you “random texts
  13. Becomes “jealous” when you talk to other girls
  14. Becomes “eager” to introduce you to her friends
  15. “Teases” you about something
  16. Calls you a “player”… or a “heartbreaker”
  17. Asks you if you have “a girlfriend”
  18. Plays with her “hair” as she is talking to you
  19. Gives you a “lot of compliments”
  20. Tries to “keep the conversation” going so that you don’t leave

Mastering The “Art” Of Talking To Women

There are even more ways you can flirt with women than what are covered in this article. So, I have decided to give away my friend’s (Bobby Rio) FREE 27-page manual called “Small Talk Tactics” report, where he shows how to turn a “normal conversation” into fun, playful, and flirtatious (sexual) banter… within minutes!

In this free report, you’ll learn:

  • An amazing tactic that Bobby likes to call “spotting the game” that will allow anyone to flip a “normal (boring) conversation” into fun, playful, and flirtatious banter… within seconds. He’ll show you how to do this with 4 simple yet amazingly effective examples that you can easily use into your interactions with women tonite in order to get her all HOT and AROUSED… (these tactics works like CRAZY even if you’re not so outgoing, fun, and social).
  • A simple tactic that builds “conversation momentum” which keeps the small talk easy, flowing, makes her laugh, while also building sexual tension… and build “instant sexual attraction”… all the while slowly getting her HOOKED onto YOU… (I’m getting tons of emails regarding this tactic from a lot of guys who have used it in their interactions with women and telling me how it has changed their “game” almost overnight…)
  • A simple yet secret phrase that you can seamlessly “inject” into your conversation with a woman you’re talking to that immediately pulls you out of the dreaded “friend zone”… and makes her obsessed about YOU as a potential sexual partner… (trust me, once you plant this “seed of attraction” in her brain… she’ll literally can’t help but imagine sleeping with you)

Go and grab a free copy of your Make “Small Talk Sexy” report now by Bobby Rio. This 27-page report will teach you everything you need to know about how to have fun, playful, and flirtatious (sexual) small talks (or conversation) with women… within minutes.

Stay chilled!


P.S. Almost forgot…

No matter how overwhelmed you might be right now by the thought of learning this skill… it is not as hard as you think to attract HOT chicks into your life. This 27-page manual will walk you through everything you will need to learn how to flirt with girls in a way that gets them all HOT and excited about you… so that you can effortlessly ‘make your move’ on her (kiss her, ask her out on a date, and even take her back to your apartment to have sex).

One of the “major hurdles” many guys face when learning how to flirt properly with women is trying to balance “the chase” with displaying too much interest.

There is a subtle balance between expressing your intent and making her want you more. Many guys get it wrong by overly complimenting a girl they’re flirting with, but that’s not the how you flirt. Rather, you show a mild interest in her and then throw in some “mixed signals” to keep her wondering about you.

There’s an interesting theory, called the “cat and the string”, that explains how a woman will be interested in something as long as she can have it. When you are flirting with a girl you always want to be slightly out of reach of her. Another important thing to do when interacting with a woman is to bring in some element of “sexuality” to your flirting. Do not be shy to express your physical interest in her. I notice that a lot of guys are too scared of letting a woman know that they are interested in her on a sexual level. But “being sexual” is also important. If you are not, then you risk coming across as a “nice guy” — and not the type of guy she wants to sleep with.

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