How To Tell She’s Into YOU (17 Subtle Signs She Likes YOU)

How to know a girl likes you? What are the signs that tell you she’s into you?

Women aren’t like men. They are completely different, physically, mentally and emotionally. While men are more direct, aggressive, and logical in their dealings with others, women are more subtle, cautious, and emotional.

This frustrates a lot of guys as they want “clear” signs of interest from girls.

So I’m not quite surprized if you’re still reading posts about how to tell a girl likes you. Luckily for you, I’ve written this post for you.

In this article, you’ll discover 17 subtle, yet powerful signs that immediately tells she’s into you. You can then start the chase — ask for her number, take her out on a date, escalate physically, and even take her back to your apartment at the end of the date.

Why is it important to spot these signs of interest?

Here’s why: If you make your “move” without picking up these signs of interest, you might push the interaction — hurry to escalate without building emotional connection first — and risk being labelled as a “creep” or even worse, placed in the dreaded “friend zone.”

Why women send these subtle signs of interest?

There are two reasons: A.) First of all, she gives you these signs of interest that tells you she’s into you so that you get the hint and begin the “chase” — ask her out on a date and get to know her better. B.) Secondly, women are subtle in their interactions, not direct and blatant like most of us men are. That’s why she’ll send off these subtle signs to keep you hooked on her, hoping you’ll catch the drift and make your move.

So now let’s get into the meat of the matter: 17 subtle signs that tells you she’s into you.

Sign #1: She talks about you with her friends

Women share almost everything — their future plans, what they’re doing this week, next week, where they were last week, who are their crushes — with their friends. They can’t hold back anything for long — especially when it comes to relationships and love — with their friends.

So if she talks about you with her friends, that’s a huge sign she’s into you.

She might even “invite” you for drinks or a pinic with her friends, soon. So keep your eyes open for this sign to tell if a woman likes you.

Sign #2: She replies to your texts, promptly

No matter the time of the day — early in the morning or late in the night — when you send her a text message, she responds to it, immediately. It shows that she was anticipating your message and looking forward to hearing from you.

Another sign to watch out for to tell she’s into you is the message itself. Is her texts rich, animated, filled with short stories, jokes, humor, memes, emoticons, lots of dots (…) in between thoughts, and exclamations to mean she’s excited, or is it just a classic response like “haha” “um” or “ok.”

If her texts are rich and animated, that’s your cue she’s into you and wants you to chase her.

Sign #3: She “misses” you.

I was hanging out with Marie — one of my exs — and not even more than a week had passed after our first meeting, and suddenly, as I was reading a book in my bedroom, I recieved this text.

“Hey, I am starting to miss you. 🙂 Where are you? I want to see you soon!”

I can also recall a text from another girl I was dating, which was something like this.

“I can come to your place if you still miss me.”

When a girl asks/texts you with a “Do you miss me?” message or something similar, understand that she actually do misses you. It’s a big sign (a lot of guys miss this) she’s into you and wants you to make a move on her.

So pay attention to text messages you recieve from her.

One more thing: A girl often sends you “I miss you” text, being playfully and acting funny, because she doesn’t want to come across as too desperate and needy, but understand that she’s really serious about it.

For your part, you can respond to these types of texts simply by being direct — asking her out on a date immediately. Don’t be surprized if she accepts your offer.

Sign #4: She reaches out to you, again.

Let’s say, you’re not sure she was interested in you, because you’re not aware of these subtle signs she’s into you before, and you stopped contacting her alltogether. Then, after a month or two, out of nowhere, you get a text from her, “Hey 🙂 How are you doing?”

If this happened to you (happened to me several times) then you can certainly tell she likes you. She’s reaches out to you again to let you know she is attracted to you and wants you to continue pursue her. (I cannot believe how many girls slipped away from my hands just because I didn’t know how to spot this sign of interest).

So if you’re not sure how she feels towards you, stop sending her text for a day or two to see if she initiates the texts/calls first. If she does, then that’s your cue the “chase” is back on!

Sign #5: She becomes “jealous” of you.

Women are “territorial” by nature, especially once they have an eye on someone. She doesn’t want her partner to hang out with her friends, or other girls. She acts “possessive”. She might protest about it. She might even get annoyed. Just be prepared to answer a barrel of questions.

If she’s does any of these things, she’s into you.

She becomes jealous of you because she’s concerned you might slip out of her hands, and hence, throws a subtle challenge at you — ask you a lot of questions, protest about it, and slightly get annoyed by it, too. 🙂

She does this because it makes her feel uncomfortable when you’re with another girl.

And if you notice this pattern recurring, that means she harbours some feelings towards you.

Sign #6: She keeps you updated about her “itinerary.”

It’s quite common to let our loved ones, or anyone that matter, to know what we’re up to, how are our week (or day) is going to be like, and what can keep us separate from each other during that time.

And the woman who expects something from you — a relationship, perhaps — will let you know about her movements. Make aware of her plans to you, which is another clear sign she’s into you and wants you to chase her.

I mean, just think for a second: Who shares their travel plans with someone they don’t care about?

No one.

Sign #7: She asks you for an “apology.”

A girl who’s into you doesn’t want to upset or anger you, even though she may appear uninterested at you first.

For this reason, you may hear her asking for an apology, sometimes repeatedly, for  small errors and giving you a long explanation for her actions. If you notice she’s trying to explain herself to you, without being offensive, that’s a huge sign she’s into you.

She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings because she cares about you.

Sign #8: She dresses to “impress.”

A girl or a woman makes a lot of effort to dress well and look appealing when around a man she’s interested in. She wants to leave a good impression on him so that he’ll only be thinking about her.

If you notice she always wears her best dresses or puts up a nice makeup, that’s your cue she’s into you. Just give her compliments on her looks to be certain she likes you, and you’ll quickly find out whether she was trying to “impress” you or for some other reasons.

If she was trying to impress you, that means she is attracted to you, and you should make your move.

Sign #9: She gets “annoyed” at you, for no reasons

We all know that once a woman is interested in a guy, she becomes affectionate.

But opposite is also quite true.

A woman that is into you may also act annoyed at you, for no reason. Understand that she’s only playing “hard to get” and wants you to make your move to pursue her, soon.

Now you might be thinking, “Why does a girl or a woman play ‘hard to get’?”

A woman that plays “hard to get” wants you to pursue her. Nothing else.

Sadly, a lot of guys stop pursuing a girl because, in their “logical” mind, they think she’s not available. But that’s not always true. Test the waters, and ask her out on a date later that week and see what happens. Don’t be surprized when she says “Yes” to your invitation.

Sign #10: She tries to find out more about YOU

If a girl is interested in you, she’ll try to find more about you — your friends, family, and background.

Well you might think she’s being “polite” to you, but chances are she’s into you and wants to know more about you. She thinks if she interacts more with you, it might nudge you to begin the “chase.”

So if she shares “secrets” or tells meaningful things about life, understand that she’s into you.

Sign #11: She tells you “what” she’s looking for

Women want a romantic spin with a guy so that they can share a story to their friends.

So if you notice the girl you’re hanging out with, all of a sudden, tells you what she’s looking for in a relationship and what other guys did to “wooooo” their girlfriends, understand that she’s into you and you should do the same thing to her too. 🙂

Sign #12: She “flirts” with other guys in front of you

A girl might flirt with other guys just to let you know that other guys find her attractive and special. No girl wants to feel she’s “easy to get.”

So don’t take it personally or attack her for it if she flirts with other guy.

If, all of a sudden, she’s posting all kinds of pictures of her hanging out with other guys on social media, don’t take it as a cue that she has no feelings for you. She could be flirting with other guys just to see how you’ll react.

You can easily tell she’s doing this if she constantly catches your eye while doing it.

If that’s what’s happening, and if you like her, then step up to the challenge and chase her.

Sign #13: She doesn’t respond your texts, immediately

Contrary to what was mentioned earlier, sometimes, a girl may not respond to your text immediately, as they don’t want to appear too interested, desperate, and clingy by answering you straight away. They might take a few days — two to four days — before answering you about a date.

Another reason why she doesn’t respond to your texts, immediately, might be to know how far will you go to pursue her.

Text her again, at least a day or two after, for a week or two, to test the water. If she responds to your text, immediately, and gives off any of the signs of interested listed in this article, then that means she’s into you.

Sign #14: She plays “hard to get.”

Many men have a love-hate relationship with girls that play “hard to get.” It is frustrating when a girl says something, but her action is completely different.

For instance, at first, she might say she’s not into you — playing “hard to get” — but her actions — flirting and touching you — says otherwise.

So when a girl if playing “hard to get” — gives you little signs of interest — but you really dig her, then keep pursuing her by sending her by asking her out on a date. If she shows up on the date, you’ll immediately know she’s into you.

Sign #15: She hardly “refuses” dates with you

It’s completely fine to reschedule a date because of personal problems, responsibilities, and emergencies. So unless she’s giving you lame excuses why she can’t meet you on dates — she forgot, she fell asleep — then you’re in the “clear.”

Women that are interested in men take out time out of their busy schedules and make effort to meet. It’s that plain and simple.

Sign #16: She goes “hot” and “cold” with you.

Othertimes, women may also give you “mixed” signals, instead of “clear” ones. At one time, she’ll be all warm, friendly, and nice to you, and the next minute, doesn’t even acknowledge your presence.

Again, you must quickly understand she’s playing the “hard to get” game to keep you interested enough in her so that your mind doesn’t wander off towards other girls.

Sign #17: She talks about “other guys” with you.

She wants your input on the guy she’s hanging out with. She talks about these other guys with you just to see how you react.

She does this just to know whether you really like her (in which case you should get upset about it) or just want a girl to sleep with (in which case it should not bother you).

Okay, so now you know how to tell if a woman likes you, it’s time to know how to “spot” these signs of interest.

So if you’re wondering “how to spot the signs of interest — she’s into you — so that you can start to chase her?” then here’s how:

3 Simple Steps To “Spot” The Signs She’s Into YOU:

Step #1. “Talk to her”

It is the first step to know if she’s interested in you. Talk to her — whether face to face or over the internet or phone — and she’ll respond. Ask her out, flirt with her, try to send her text message after a week even if she doesn’t. You’ll instantly know whether she’s into you or not by the responses you get from her. (Remember: Even if doesn’t respond is a response in itself.)

Step #2. “Ask her out”

In order to catch many of the signs of attraction are based on body language. And to see her body language, you need to meet her, face to face. So ask her out for a coffee or to go for a walk in the park, few days later. If she shows up on the date, you’ll interact with her again, and catch any of the signs of interest to really know whether she’s into you or just bluffing you around.

Step #3. “Lead”

Lead the conversation. Ask her questions.

Instead of always asking her questions, like in a job interview, make a statement. For example, instead of asking, “How was your day?” lead the interaction by sharing how your day went.

“Today, while I was returning back to my home, I saw this weird looking hunchback reading Harry Potter to a bunch of kids surrounding him. I love Harry Potter. How about you? Which is your favourite book?”

Also, share secrets, jokes, and brief anecdotes of the day to lead the interaction. By doing this, you’ll immediately get the upper hand in the interaction, and you can lead the interaction… in any direction you’d like — take her on an instant date, and then, back to your apartment.

It works in your favour because you hit two birds with one stone. You get to see how she reacts to certain topics, and also get to know her “personality.”

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Stay chilled,

Abishek