Strip Club Myths vs Reality


Using these methods, within 30 seconds she’ll STOP thinking about trying to hustle you for a “lap dance” — and she’ll be chatting and laughing with you, just as if you were doing a successful pickup at your neighborhood bar.

Most guys, however, buy into the STEREOTYPES about strippers, and this holds them back from trying to take it to this “other level.” I’ve dated many strippers (I even had an HSG, Hot Stripper Girlfriend, who lived with me for two years), and I understand their psychology like few men do.

I can also tell you that it is ABSOLUTELY possible for you to hook up with one of these hotties — whether it’s strictly for sex, or you want to date some of these stunners.

(Wait until you stroll into you local bar with two Hot Stripper Babes on your arm… watch your buddies’ jaws DROP! Lol…)

But first, I want to break down some of the MYTHS about strippers, and explain the FACTS as I have come to understand them.

MYTH #1: Strippers don’t date customers.

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MYTH #1: Strippers don’t date customers.

Yes, stippers will always say this. “I don’t date customers” is like the official stipper mantra. Why? Because they feel that in order to maintain their sanity with this crazy job, they should keep the two “sides” of their identity separate.

Outside of the club, she might be Mandy, the single mom who is taking classes at the local community college. Or, she might be Rebecca, the aspiring actress who is only stripping “temporarily” until she catches her lucky break.

But at the club, she puts on her makeup and G-string and she becomes “Mercedes” or “Destiny” or whatever her stage name may be. She tells herself that this is JUST A JOB because it would be too damn depressing to think that this is “who she is” — a stripper grinding on guy’s crotches for ten or twenty bucks a song.

Strippers hate the fact that most guys think they’re basically no better than prostitutes. (They are NOT prostitutes, unless you’re hanging out in some total shit hole club. Try soliciting a stipper for sex at a club in Las Vegas, and you’re likely to get slapped or thrown out by the bouncers.)

For this reason, stippers generally don’t date customers. They don’t want to date a guy who KNOWS how she earns her living, because they will judge her on that basis.

But in reality, do strippers wind up dating customers from time to time? Absolutely! I met my ex-girlfriend, the HSG, when she was on duty at her club. All of her stripper friends had boyfriends, or fuck buddies, who they met at the club. The idea that strippers, as a hard-and-fast rule, do NOT date customers is nonsense.

Why would a stipper NOT want to see you outside of her work, IF you strike her as a fun, cool, super-confident guy who makes her feel attraction? The key here is to overcome her doubts about dating “customers.” You have to present yourself as being NON JUDGMENTAL and you need to establish that you UNDERSTAND her line of work, and you know it’s “just a job.” (My “Secrets of Strip Club Seduction” is PACKED with techniques for building rapport, comfort and attraction.)

Basically, you act NOTHING like the “chump customers” who she will AVOID at all costs as soon as she clocks out. You’re different. You’re an original. You REALLY UNDERSTAND her. And that, my friend, is how you get laid from stippers 😉

MYTH #2: All strippers are strung out on drugs, booze, etc., and come from screwed-up, abusive backgrounds.

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MYTH #2: All strippers are strung out on drugs, booze, etc., and come from screwed-up, abusive backgrounds.

Like I said, I’ve dated a lot of these girls. I’m also close friends with several very famous porn stars. (Again, one of the perks of living in Lag Vegas.) None of them had these issues. Of course you will come across stippers who paty too much, or are emotionally screwed up. In any nightlife-related job, you will find these personality types. Combine the intense nocturnal lifestyle, and being able to drink and party (while you’re on the job!), and naturally there will be women who go over the edge.

On the other hand, I know gorgeous stippers who don’t drink, don’t smoke, and don’t touch drugs. They work at the clubs simply because there is simply no other job where they can make this much cash, so easily. These girls actually have to “dumb themselves down” when they’re working, so that customers can buy into the whole “fantasy” that they are with a brainless sex object — when in reality, these are some of the coolest, hippest chicks you will ever come across!

MYTH #3: Stippers will only date uys who have money or fame.

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MYTH #3: Stippers will only date uys who have money or fame.

Another major falsehood. When I was living with my HSG in Las Vegas, we used to throw pool parties at my house and all of her stipper friends would come over. I felt like a mini-Hugh Hefner 😉

Sometimes we’d be hanging out by my pool, and the girls would get calls from bigshot “VIP customers” who were coming to town and wanted to see them at the club. The girls knew exactly how to work the customers… on the phone, they’d be all flirty and sounding excited to see them.

Then, as soon as they hung up, the girls would all crack up. They would tatally BUST ON these big shots. Mocking them. They knew they were going to WORK these guys at the club and get their money, and the dude was going to get nothing but a bunch of silly lap-dances in return.

(By the way, when I say these guys were “VIPs,” I’m not kidding. Some of these dudes were millionaire Hollywood actors, famous rappers, All-Star pro athletes… and the strippers were totally NOT interested in banging them!)

Why? Because these big shots had NO GAME. They were vulgar, arrogant, and treated the girls like “hoes.” The girls were into making money off them, but didn’t want to sleep with them — because this, in their minds, would make them prostitutes.

It was INCREDIBLE to me how these rich, famous dudes were complete SUCKERS with the strippers. They would come to the club, blow a few thousand dollars on lapdances and drinks, get REJECTED when they tried to bring a stripper home, and then go back to the casino and hire a hooker.

(And then there was me… buying a case of cheap beer, throwing my backyard pool parties, and bangin’ em for free — because I knew how to really CONNECT with them.)

You can connect with these hotties, too when you’ve used and applied the techniques here:

Dean Cortez

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