“Are you freakin’ serious?”, you ask.
You bet I am and here’s the MAIN REASON why you should NEVER do it.
If you were to ask any girl on this, they’ll tell you it’s nonsense.
As a matter of fact, they’ll tell you that they actually LOVE compliments. And you should throw them out AS MUCH as you can.
But here’s the irony of it all.
Yes, it’s true that women love compliments from men. No doubt about it.
Telling a woman “she’s beautiful”, “she’s sexy” will make them happy.
But you’ve got to realize that giving compliments to them only serves to fan their egos. That’s about it.
By doing so, it further gives them REASSURANCE that she’s hot AND at the same time you’re putting her up on a pedestal.
You’re indirectly letting her know that she has more “social value”, she has the upper hand over you and gives HER the power to say “no” to you anytime she feels like it.
Generously throwing out compliments does not stir a woman’s feelings of “attraction” for you. It has NO purpose whatsoever.
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Now there’s no point debating this with a woman because they will never ‘get this’ UNTIL someone uses it on them and they STILL won’t know what hit ’em.
On one hand, they say they want to meet sweet, nice guys.
But when they actually meet one, they’ll say he’s too boring and predictable.
So lesson #1:
Never listen to what a woman says she wants.
Instead, look at their ACTIONS and RESPONSES for the answer.
To get a better understanding of this, imagine you’re this “hot mama”, sultry looking, sexy, intelligent and gorgeous looking women.
You’re the perfect dream girl guys go ga-ga over and women get jealous at.
You could have ANY man you wanted, and guys would do just about anything for you.
What comes naturally with this ‘turf’, you’ll have ALL SORTS of guys approaching you… several times a day… EVERY DAY.
And they come up to you saying things like “Oh you’re so beautiful, you must be a model, an actress, perhaps? I’d like to get to know you, blah, blah blah…”
What would be the first thing that comes to your mind?
“Geez, this guy’s a lil’ whacked. He just met me for no more than 2 minutes, and he’s ALREADY fallen in love with me? Oh well, what’s new…”
At this point, you’ll think of him as being UNORIGINAL and plain BORING.
He’s just like the HUNDREDS of other guys who came up to you saying the SAME exact thing.
You’ll know very well all he’s interested in is your physical looks and just wants to get into your pants, and that’s it.
Now I’m not saying that you should NEVER give compliments to women at all.
In fact, you should.
BUT you should only do it AFTER you’ve made her WORK for it.
Very VERY big difference.
What you should be doing is to TEASE, CHALLENGE, and bust on her… like CRAZY.
And as you’re busting on them, you can subtly throw out little compliments like “Hey, I didn’t know you were this funny when I first met you… SHOCKING. Oooh”
(She’ll whack your arm at this point so prepare to shield yourself, ok? 😉
See how it’s done?
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P.S. Here’s another related article on the subject: The ‘Secret’ to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations