If you are serious about meeting, engaging, connecting, and seducing more women than you may have in the past then you must learn how to flirt with girls. Sorry, there’s no other shortcut to this.
And the easiest and the fastest way to do this is to learn a handful of good flirting techniques and then head out to a bar and practice applying them into your conversations with women. In this post, I will reveal you 5 simple steps for creating that fun, playful, and flirtatious vibe that most women go nuts about.
1. Flirt with her.
One of the best ways to flirt with a woman is to “tease her.” What you are trying to basically do here is watch out for an opportunity to make fun of something she is saying or doing. This doesn’t mean you have to be mean and cruel to her; you’re basically looking to “bust her balls” about something silly she has said or done.
2. Use physical teases
Once after you have started doing the verbal teasing to her to let her know that you are actually flirting with her, you can then start to tease her physically, too. “Physical teases” basically include doing things such as making an exaggerated expression as she is telling you a joke or sharing a wild story, pulling your hand away as she tries to give you a high five, or sticking your tongue out at her, etc. I know doing these things sounds childish and stupid… but they are meant to. The best examples of flirting are the kind of stupid, silly, and childish things you used to do back “on the playground” in the 4th-grade with your childhood crush.
3. Be playful
The most attractive quality you can SHOW to a woman is that you are playful. This is particularly true as women get turned off by talking to a cautious, nervous, and boring guys. But as soon as you display to a guy that you are a “fun” guy… she’ll immediately put all her guards down and beginning to open up to you more.
4. Escalate the flirtation
Now, once you’ve demonstrated that you are a fun, playful, and flirty type of guy, you then must start to “steer” the conversation towards a “sexual” level. This is extremely important because you do not want to wind up becoming her “funny friend” or “the flirt”… rather, you want her to start viewing you as a sort of guy she would like to become intimate and personal with. And the best way to do this is to start to become more physical with her. What that basically means is that you start to do things to her like holding her hand, getting closer to her, and holding strong eye contact.
5. Keep her guessing
Women love the thrill of not knowing exactly how you feel about them. As soon as you tell a girl that you “like her”, the “sexual tension” that was building naturally between the two of you starts to disappear. This is the reason why it’s always a better strategy to never quite let a girl know where she stands with you. This concept of “push/pull” is an extremely powerful tool when flirting with a girl you like.
P.S. Here’s another related article on the subject: More Flirting Tips For Guys