Best Questions To Ask On A First Date
You must have probably heard about the popular saying “You only get ONE chance to make a first great impression?” This saying is particularly true on your first date. This is the number one reason why you need to be always prepared on your first date… so that you always have something to say, some good questions to ask, and know exactly how to create that fun, playful, and flirtatious (and sexual) encounter
Listen. If you ask good questions, the woman you’re talking to will be compelled to open herself to you. Because when you ask the right questions, she’ll feel comfortable around you. She’ll become attracted to you… making it super easy for you to get the kiss, or even pull her back to the toilet for a quickie.
So, before I reveal you some of the best questions to ask on the first date, I want you to understand these three most important things:
- Try skipping the “small talk” (really, it is boring and never creates attraction).
- Learn how to flirt. From today onwards, just flirt with girls. And, flirt even more.
- Remember, the date MUST be fun.
A LOT of guys ruin by asking ‘what questions to ask on the first date… or what to say to her on the date. But, you must understand that it doesn’t matter what you say to her, or what kind of questions you ask her. What matters is the “vibe.”
So, you MUST always strive to create a fun, playful, and flirtatious vibe.
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I just mentioned 3 key points to remember during your first date. The secret to having a “fun date” is to immediately establish yourself as a flirt. This allows you to keep that fun “vibe” alive throughout the date. There is nothing worse than being on a date where you and the woman are feeling nervous, uncomfortable, and running out of things to say to each other.
You WILL NEVER get a second date if she doesn’t have fun.
How to establish yourself as a flirt?
Before you start asking her thousands and thousands of questions that you probably do not care about the answers anyway… try to SHOW her your playful and fun side by teasing her just a little bit.
Many guys waste their valuable time on a first date by treating it like a job interview where they often swap back and forth questions with a woman. But doing that is NOT fun. Doing that doesn’t create attraction. And, doing that, of course, doesn’t get you a second date. Or, get you a kiss.
You want to get a kiss, right? Listen, if you don’t get a kiss on your first date, then, it’ll get EVEN MORE DIFFICULT to get it on a second date.
The trick to having a great first date is not to ask her million different questions and force her to spill everything about her. The goal is to create a fun “vibe.”
The goal is to flirt with her.
Avoid THESE Worst First Date Questions!
Avoid these typical boring questions on your first date. They are boring. And most probably every guy she went out with before has asked her the same types of questions.
- What do you do for fun?
- What do you do for a living?
- Do you have any pets?
- Where did you grow up?
- What type of music do you prefer?
These are the kind of questions one would ask someone on a job interview or ask a potential roommate.
Does this mean you should never ask these questions to know this information?
Here are other questions you should NOT ask on a first date.
- Questions You Should AVOID on the First Date
Make Statement… Instead of Asking Her Questions (A Well-Kept Secret Most Guys Will NEVER Know)
I want to tell you a little secret that will tremendously transform the way you’ll have conversations on your first date (and your second, third, and 10th date).
STOP asking questions, and START making statements. Why? Because making statements shows your personality and allows you to flirt with a woman easily rather than just exchange information you may not even care about in the first place.
Here are a few examples:
Instead of asking her “Where are you from?”
Make a statement like “You don’t look like from here, are you? Because I get a southern country girl vibe from you.”
The reason why this strategy works so well is that instead of only asking a girl about where she is from, you’re actually giving her an impression of how you view her. Now, she’ll most likely follow up with a question “why do you think that way?”, which opens up an entirely new conversation topic.
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Best Questions To Ask on a First Date
If you want to learn how to keep the conversation flowing with a woman, and how to avoid the dreaded “awkward silences”, then I highly suggest you check out this post on best conversation topics.
But if you run short and want a few good questions to ask on a date then it is best to ask open-ended questions that get you an emotional response from a girl.
Here are a few examples of open-ended questions:
- What’s the ONE thing you can’t say no to?
- What was your absolute worst first date?
- If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?
- What was the last really adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
- When you were a little kid what did you want to be when you grew up?
These questions are all great because they allow you to learn a lot about a woman and also get her to open up about a few things that she normally doesn’t talk about with a man.
Good First Date Tips
Well, I hope I did a wonderful job of making you understand the importance of creating that fun, playful, and flirtatious vibe rather than shoot a girl with million of different boring questions that don’t spark any attraction at all.