Everyone’s Favourite Guide To Flirting
I absolutely don’t like having “boring” conversations with women. I can’t tolerate it even for a second. I would rather stay back at home and play a video game then spend half an hour talking to a girl in the dreaded “interview mode.”
Here’s the thing about “boring conversations”… as a conversationalist it is your 100% responsibility to make the conversation fun, playful, and flirtatious. A woman expects a man to lead the interaction. If you talk about your passions, she’ll talk about hers too. If you talk about “PG” topics, then she’ll reveal all her sexual fantasies to you and give you a sneak peek at her wild side.
This is the reasons why successful dating gurus, like Bobby Rio, teach his students the concept called “The Theory of Expectations.”
This theory states that how you talk with a woman in the first 5 minutes of a conversation or a date will determine the tone for the rest of your interaction with her. This is the reason why it is extremely important to switch “boring” conversation to a fun, playful, and flirtatious banter, quickly.
The faster you and the girl you’re talking to are having fun together, the higher the chances of her starting to desire you sexually, and the easier it will be to get a date with her, or take her back to your apartment.
Now, in my friend’s Bobby Rio ‘Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet’ (free) he has offered almost 12 different ‘banter lines’ that you can apply immediately into your conversations with women to establish yourself as a ‘flirt’. But, throughout the rest of the interaction with the girl, you must be able to keep on teasing her every now and then so that the conversation doesn’t stall out and turn into something that could ruin your date.
How do you tease her?
You must listen to her carefully.
A girl will give you all kinds of hints you possibly need to immediately turn a”normal” conversation into a much more sexual level.
So what should you be listening to? You must be listening for anything that she says that you a flip or misinterpret into something to tease her. Here are a few things you must listen to:
- Her “blonde” side
- Her wild side
- Double entendres (especially the ones that can be misinterpreted as sexual)
- A bossy side
How to Playfully Tease Her By Using HER Words Against Her
The reason why you must listen to her for any of these kinds of things is that once you hear them you can then misinterpret or twist them into some type of fun and playful joke.
So, let’s say, you are having a conversation with a girl and she shares you a short story about how she rebuked one of her colleagues for cutting in front of her at the vending machine. Once you hear this, you could say something like…
“That’s nice… so you are a girl with a bossy side. So you are the type who throws a temper tantrum when she doesn’t get her way?”
(Stomp your feet on the ground in mock temper tantrum)
“That’s super cool though. I like girls with a bossy side. Just not so in the bedroom. I bet you don’t have any chains or whips hanging under your bed, do you?”
If you really want to be a guy who is very good at teasing girls then you must stop thinking about what you’re going to say next the moment she stops talking about something… and start paying really close attention to what she is saying to you instead… and find something (like above) as an ammunition to begin teasing her.
Go and grab a free copy of my friend’s, Bobby Rio, ‘Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet‘ report here.